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Rafiq
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Last active: 2 months ago

63 Indianapolis, Indiana, United States

Male / Other / ID: 1245332

Seeking Female 18 - 52 For: Marriage

Last active: 2 months ago

Overview

Rafiq

He's Looking For

Education:

Masters Degree
Any

Have children:

Yes - live at home
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Don't drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

No Answer

Occupation:

IT / Communications
Any

Member Overview

I am a compassionate, gentle man who can bring love, passion, kindness and mutual respect into your married and family life. You have the freedom of choice to become the person who you want to be in a loving, caring, thriving relationship and family. I will listen to you, encourage you and fully sup...
I am a compassionate, gentle man who can bring love, passion, kindness and mutual respect into your married and family life. You have the freedom of choice to become the person who you want to be in a loving, caring, thriving relationship and family. I will listen to you, encourage you and fully support you. If you give me the opportunity, I will love you and nurture you, all of you, heart, mind, body and soul. I am nearing retirement, financially wise and prepared, in excellent health with an active lifestyle, seeking a second wife with whom to share life and love. I am very well traveled throughout the world and sensitive to different cultures and worldviews. I am Sunni Muslim, having embraced Islam more than 25 years ago through people who I met from other countries. Although I am not highly religious, I am a deep mystical thinker along the lines of Sufi traditions in becoming close to Allah. My favorite poet is the Sufi Jalaluddin Rumi, who wrote many poems about love, heart and spirit. I am currently married to my first and only wife, who is now 68 years old. I am American and my wife is a devout Sunni Malaysian and we met in the United States as students. We lived in Malaysia (where I am a permanent resident status) for 20 years after we graduated and then we moved back to the United States for the last 12 years. My wife recently gave me her permission and blessings to marry another wife. She is granting me her permission due to her age and her lack of sexual desire. I have one son age 32 and one adopted daughter age 15, both of whom are doing very well in life. I highly value family and relationships, because it is the people who we have in our lives who help us become who we want to be. I love to travel and explore new places. I have traveled throughout Asia and Europe and I have gained an appreciation for other cultures and worldviews. I like to go off the beaten path and explore places where tourists don't often go and make an effort to mix with the local people wherever I travel. I also like to play electric guitar, write fantasy fiction and poetry, and read (a lot!). Playing music and writing fiction and poetry gives me a way to express myself creatively. I am retiring at an early age within one year and I will have a lot of time to devote to my second wife and her family, I have done a lot of information technology work with the UN that allowed me to travel around the world.
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Seeking

I am seeking a passionate young lady who is looking for a kind, compassionate husband with whom to share her love, life and family. I am seeking someone who can be playful and creative even when sharing intimate moments as husband and wife. I believe that sex is the most intimate, personal way for a...
I am seeking a passionate young lady who is looking for a kind, compassionate husband with whom to share her love, life and family. I am seeking someone who can be playful and creative even when sharing intimate moments as husband and wife. I believe that sex is the most intimate, personal way for a husband and wife to express their love and care for each other. I am willing to consider a relationship with a woman who has been divorced or widowed, and in need of a husband (and possibly a good role model as a father), as well as a single woman who is seeking a good husband. The person I am seeking can be of any ethnicity, as long as she is Sunni Muslim and willing to respect my first marriage in keeping with Islam. While I do seek a beautiful second wife, I believe that beauty shines from within a person, rather than from mere physical appearance. What matters most to me is who you are, not what you look like.
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More About Me

Rafiq

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Verified
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
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63
18 - 52
Lives in:
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Indianapolis, Indiana, United States
Any
Relocate:
Willing to relocate to another country
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
Any
Hair length:
Short
Any
Hair type:
Straight
Any
Eye color:
Hazel
Any
Eye wear:
Glasses
Any
Height:
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6'2" (188 cm)
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Weight:
Verified
75 kg (165 lb)
Any
Body style:
Average
Any
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Facial hair:
Clean Shaven
N/A
Best feature:
No Answer
Any
Body art:
No Answer
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Don't drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Other
Any
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Any
Number of children:
2
Any
Oldest child:
Older than 18
Any
Youngest child:
15
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
No Answer
Any
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Income:
$60,001 - $120,000 USD
Any
Home type:
House
Any
Living situation:
Live with family
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
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Education:
Masters Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
English
Any
English ability:
No Answer
Any
Malay ability:
No Answer
Any
Religion:
No Answer
Chinese sign:
No Answer
Any
Star sign:
No Answer
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Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Board / Card Games, Camping / Nature, Computers / Internet, Dining Out, Education, Family, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Library, Music (Playing), Meditation, Museums / Galleries, Philosophy / Spirituality, Reading, Science and Technology, Traveling, Watching Sports, Writing

Food:

Other, American, Middle Eastern, Greek, Indian, Italian, Continental, Jewish / Kosher, Mediterranean

Music:

Jazz / Blues, Rock, World

Sport:

American Football, Basketball, Boating / Sailing, Bowling, Canoe / Kayak, Cycling, Golf, Hiking, Horse Riding, Pool / Billards, Swimming, Tennis / Badminton, Walking

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Lord of the Rings

Favorite Book:

Lord of the Rings

Favorite Food:

International food

Favorite Music:

Classic rock and blues

Dress Style:

Sensible, practical and neat, jeans.

Humor:

Very good, I like to pun

Hobbies & Interests:

Play guitar, read, write fiction, travel

Travelled:

Much of Europe, Asia, Australia and NZ

Cultural Adaption:

Very adaptable, I have traveled widely. My spouse is from SE Asia.

Romance:

As my partner pleases!

Personality:

Personable, compassionate

My Perfect Match is:

Kind, gentle, compassionate, caring, loving, passionate.

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