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John
Standard Member
Last active: 6 months ago

49 Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States

Male / Separated / ID: 1121988

Seeking Female 30 - 45 For: Romance / Dating, Marriage

Last active: 6 months ago

Overview

John

He's Looking For

Education:

Masters Degree
Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Yes - sometimes live at home, Yes - don't live at home, No

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke, Occasionally smoke

Religion:

Taoism
Any

Occupation:

Executive / Management / HR
Other, Administrative / Secretarial / Clerical, Advertising / Media, Construction / Trades, Education / Academic, Executive / Management / HR, Farming / Agriculture, Fire / law enforcement / security, Finance / Banking / Real Estate, IT / Communications, Laborer / Manufacturing, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary, Non-profit / clergy / social services, Political / Govt / Civil Service, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Sports / recreation, Technical / Science / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality, Transportation, Hair Dresser / Personal Grooming, Entertainment / Media, Self Employed, Military

Member Overview

Seriously, if you don't have anything in your profile then ask me for my email or to go to some other random site I'm just going to ignore you. If you can't talk to me here for a while then I'll assume you are a scammer. Here’s the deal, I’m a real man looking for a real woman. If there is a...
Seriously, if you don't have anything in your profile then ask me for my email or to go to some other random site I'm just going to ignore you. If you can't talk to me here for a while then I'll assume you are a scammer. Here’s the deal, I’m a real man looking for a real woman. If there is any doubt in your mind now as to if you’re a real woman just stop now and move on. Please, please note; I am not interested in having more children. If this is a deal breaker I'm sorry but I am not the man for you. Me in a nutshell: 35 is my functional age, 49 is my chronological age. If my age is a problem for you then think of me as 35 with a WHOLE LOT of life experience. I don't even think of myself as 49, to me it still sounds pretty old. I know how active I am and I am MUCH closer to 35 than I am 49. I’m old school loyal, trustworthy, honest, romantic, kind and am very much a man of my word. In my world your handshake is an oath; at no point should I need an email to prove something was or was not said. I love to show affection, kissing at random, holding hands, just sitting on the couch could easily turn into a shoulder massage or foot rub. I know how to treat a lady and I know how to walk away from one who is not. If I don’t mean something I say it will be very obvious with funny sarcasm. Other than that I say what I mean and mean what I say, I don’t like wasting my breath on fluffy filler or misdirecting words. My real name is Tom Johnson, really. I put this in here to see if anyone is really reading this. I possess a great sense of humor that can be dry or twisted and anything in between. I don’t take myself or life very seriously except when the need arises as I’d much rather spend my time enjoying the flow of life than fighting it. My private life is just that. It doesn’t go with me to work and I don’t discuss it without approval. I don’t like to work out or eat healthy but do it anyway to keep fit and remain healthy. I have my own views and believe in what I believe in. I like me the way I am, I'm not likely to change so don’t think I am a fixer-upper. I know who I am, what I am all about and am very comfortable in my own skin. It's also what I am looking for in a woman. You should be strong of mind, know who you are, what you want in life and be comfortable with yourself the way you are. I am extremely confident in myself and my abilities, never to the point of arrogance because I also know my limits. I am a 16 year veteran of both the Marines and the Air Force. It has molded me into who I have become but it is not who I am anymore. I have been successful in the civilian world for 7 years now. I love most animals, for some reason that I can’t explain they love me back. I’ve been told that animals can tell good from bad in humans so I guess that is supposed to say something positive about me. Not a sports guy. I know how to play them and understand the rules but don’t care enough to follow them. I will watch them and get excited at great plays but I don’t make them a priority in my life. I am an automotive guy. It doesn’t consume me but I can appreciate any vehicle for what it is, or was. Hiking, walking, beach time, dinners out, dinners in after we cooked them together, of course travel, star gazing because I live in the desert and it’s freaking awesome! I’m sure there is more so if you are interested then you should ask. I currently live in the desert but not planning on staying. It's been a nice break from living in a larger city but it's time to get back to civilization. By this time next year I could be in Dallas or Atlanta or anywhere else warm most of the year. TAKE NOTE: My latesest update: If you are a scamer, move on. Don't take this as a challange but no one has ever scammed me. No one ever will, I can see it comeing a mile away. Y'all are very obvious but sometimes I am bored and will string you along for a few weeks LOL!
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Seeking

Passion and intellect. The female version of me. Military service optional. :) Honestly seeking a younger woman because I desire someone who can keep up with me. I am looking for a woman for a long term relationship (40+years), ideally who lives with me that can take off at a moments notice ...
Passion and intellect. The female version of me. Military service optional. :) Honestly seeking a younger woman because I desire someone who can keep up with me. I am looking for a woman for a long term relationship (40+years), ideally who lives with me that can take off at a moments notice for a weekend or a weeklong adventure. Someone I can take care of and take care of me. I miss having love in my life and am searching for the last love of my life. Looking for a partner, someone who is loyal and can communicate. Someone who can agree to disagree and doesn’t always need to be right or wrong. A woman who can except that I might not always share the same views and beliefs but can appreciate my opinion. Someone who will never put me down and who is non judgmental and supportive but also gives me her honest two cents when I need it! I am not looking to be anyone's personal ATM. MUST be physically fit and active. If you are not you will not be able to keep up with me. My military service afforded me the ability to see other countries and their cultures first hand around the globe. There are A LOT of places I would love to return to as a tourist and bring a special woman with. Also, there are a lot of places I have never been to that I’d love to see, also with that special woman.
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More About Me

John

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
49
30 - 45
Lives in:
Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States
Any
Relocate:
Willing to relocate within my country
Willing to relocate to another country

Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
Any
Hair length:
Short
Any
Hair type:
Prefer not to say
Any
Eye color:
Green
Any
Eye wear:
None
Any
Height:
5'10" (178 cm)
4'9" (145 cm) - 5'9" (176 cm)
Weight:
75 kg (165 lb)
40 kg (88 lb) - 56 kg (123 lb)
Body style:
Athletic
Petite, Slim, Athletic
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Facial hair:
Clean Shaven
N/A
Best feature:
My Personality
Any
Body art:
Tattoo
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke, Occasionally smoke
Marital Status:
Separated
Any
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Yes - sometimes live at home, Yes - don't live at home, No
Number of children:
2
0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7
Oldest child:
17
Any
Youngest child:
15
Any
Want (more) children:
No
No, Not Sure
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Executive / Management / HR
Other, Administrative / Secretarial / Clerical, Advertising / Media, Construction / Trades, Education / Academic, Executive / Management / HR, Farming / Agriculture, Fire / law enforcement / security, Finance / Banking / Real Estate, IT / Communications, Laborer / Manufacturing, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary, Non-profit / clergy / social services, Political / Govt / Civil Service, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Sports / recreation, Technical / Science / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality, Transportation, Hair Dresser / Personal Grooming, Entertainment / Media, Self Employed, Military
Employment status:
Full Time
Full Time, Retired
Income:
$60,001 - $120,000 USD
Any
Home type:
Apartment / Flat
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Masters Degree
Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
English
Any
English ability:
Fluent
Fluent, Very Good, Good
Malay ability:
No Answer
Any
Religion:
Taoism
Any
Chinese sign:
No Answer
Any
Star sign:
Aries
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Other, Beach / Parks, Board / Card Games, Camping / Nature, Cars / Mechanics, Casino / Gambling, Computers / Internet, Comedy Clubs, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dining Out, Education, Gardening / Landscaping, Investing / Finance, Music (Listening), Meditation, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, Science and Technology, Traveling, Video / Online Games

Food:

Other, Middle Eastern, Barbecue, German, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Soul Food, Indian, South American, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Thai, Deli, Korean, Vegetarian / Organic, Eastern European, Mediterranean, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican, Vietnamese

Music:

Other, Classical / Opera, Jazz / Blues, Reggae, R'n'B / Hip Hop, Rock

Sport:

Other, Auto Racing, Biking, Bowling, Cycling, Fishing, Hiking, Hunting / Shooting, Martial Arts, Pool / Billards, Walking, Yoga / Pilates

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